A Willful Woman…

Thoughts about books from a romance addict.

We Interrupt Your Irregularly Scheduled Romance Posts

for some lists of Christmas songs from my husband’s mixes.

“carol of the bells”, windham hill
“welcome christmas”, how the grinch stole christmas soundtrack
“the christians and the pagans”, dar williams
l”ittle drummer boy/peace on earth”, bing crosby & david bowie
“a christmas wish”, kermit the frog
“first christmas away from home”, the black family
“star of wonder”, the roches
“christmastime is here”, vince guaraldi
“happy christmas (war is over)”, john lennon & yoko ono
“trim up the tree”, how the grinch stole christmas soundtrack
“dona nobis pacem”, windham hill
“god rest ye merry, gentlemen”, bruce cockburn
“the holly and the ivy”, george winston
“we three kings”, the roches
“a baby just like you”, john denver

“suddenly it’s christmas”, loudon wainwright iii
“you’re a mean one, mr. grinch”, how the grinch stole christmas soundtrack
“green chri$tma$”, stan freberg
“please daddy, don’t get drunk this christmas”, john denver
“the day after christmas”, martin azevedo
“father christmas”, the kinks
“christmas is pain”, roy zimmerman
“the lonely jew on christmas”, south park
“stand up for judas”, leon rosselson
“mr. snow miser”, the year without a santa claus
“a christmas wish”, steve martin
“fairytale of new york”, the pogues
“buy war toys for christmas”, the foremen
“a christmas carol”, tom lehrer
“you’re a mean one, mr. grinch” (a capella), metropolis barbershop quartet

Winter Howdies:
“Ring Out Solstice Bells”, Jethro Tull
“Calling on Mary”, Aimee Mann
“Christ the Messiah”, Evan and the Chipmunks
“The Island of Misfit Toys”, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer Soundtrack
“Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)”, Death Cab For Cutie
“Christmas Carol”, The Neilds
“Chiron Beta Prime”, Jonathan Coulton
“You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch”, Pete Nelson
“Christmas Bells”, John Gorka
“Deck the Halls”, Klezmonauts
“I Believe in Father Christmas”, U2
“Elf’s Lament”, Barenaked Ladies
“Shepherds”, Bruce Cockburn
“Welcome Christmas”, Sean Harkness
“ChristmaHanuRamaKaDonaKwanzaa”, Roy Zimmerman
“Christmas Song”, Dave Matthews
“Greensleeved”, Jethro Tull
“God Rest Ye Merry, Gentlemen”, Barenaked Ladies
“When a Child is Born”, Roy Zimmerman

“your holiday song”, indigo girls
“all that I want”, the weepies
“have yourself a merry little christmas”, daphne loves darby
“the lord’s bright blessing”, mr. magoo’s christmas carol
“family”, dar williams
“santa santa”, david sederis
“away in a manger”, kevin olusola
“christmas song”, bruce cockburn
“prayer of st. francis”, sarah mclachlan
“twelve days of christmas”, garrison keillor
“silent night”, cynthia bredfeldt
“the winter song”, eisley
“christmas eve (sarajevo 12/24)”, savatage
“the rebel jesus”, jackson browne
“glorious”, melissa etheridge
“rudolph (you don’t have to put on the red nose)”, mojochronic
“if it be your will”, leonard cohen
“first snow on brooklyn”, jethro tull
“bright morning star”, oysterband (with june tabor & chumbawamba)



I’m rethinking doing the diverse romance challenge. No one has said anything negative to me, but I’m starting to feel uncomfortable with the bingo square format in this context. Am I overthinking?


Feeling Very Happy Tonight

Also, rather prescient.

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“Since it was the beginning of October, he decided he would read Stellaluna by Janell Cannon. It was one of his favorite books about a fruit bat that was raised by birds.”

I  had no idea there were numerous books with that plotline.


Today in Scanning Errors

“Who rims Cressida?”


To Mary Sue or Not to Mary Sue

I’m reading Song of a Wren by Emma Darcy, and trying to decide whether the main character counts as a Mary Sue or not. I think my problem is that it’s such a pejorative term and I’m not sure it’s one the character really deserves, in that sense. She’s not bland, she’s just drawn that way. Or more specifically… I don’t think she’s a bad or dislikable character, in herself. It’s the combination of her thinking herself very ordinary and everyone around her lauding her to the skies that turns me off.

Perhaps I especially dislike it because it’s just the sort of fantasy I would’ve gone for when I was an adolescent. Which really gives me a much better understanding of the whole “Twilight” phenomenon.


And The Hits Just Keep On Coming

My reviews are being stolen, posted under other people’s names, and used to sell books.

I give up.


Review of the Kobo Mini ereader

My Nook Touch pretty much turned into a doorstop while I was on my review vacation, so I wound up doing a lot of reading on my Kobo Mini, which I hadn’t previously used much.  I wanted to share my impressions.  This post is not “sponsored” in any way — the Kobo Mini was purchased by me.


The home page shows the 5 most recent books you added to your library, so it’s simple to switch between books. (Assuming you most want to read the books you recently added.)  And this includes sideloaded books, not just books purchased from Kobo. I prefer this to the way my Nook treats sideloaded books as inferior content.

UPDATE 7/20/15: The home page no longer works like this. It now shows just the book you’ve last read, plus a bunch of stats and other stuff Kobo wants you to look at. A real turn for the worse, in my opinion.

You can delete books from the ereader! A huge improvement over the Nook Touch.

You can choose to see all the books you own in your library, or just the ones currently downloaded. Another huge improvement over the NT.

The screen asks you if you want to connect to your computer when you plug it in, and has a screen reminding you that it’s connected.  (See also cons.)

There are numerous ways to customize a book’s appearance. (See also cons.)

Battery life seems to be comparable to other current generation ereaders.

The reader is very thin and light, but the “quilted” back gives it a little bulk for a nicer hand feel.

The Reading Life program is very silly, but cute. You get what are basically girl scout badges for reading at certain times of day, reading a lot of pages, and so on. My son loves seeing the new “awards” as I “earn” them.  The program works even with wifi off.

I was going to say that the exchangeable snapback feature is really dumb — the idea is you color coordinate with your outfits or something — but I just noticed I got a bad ink stain on the back of mine and I might buy a new one. (Yes, I am anal.)

The screen is not so small that it’s hard to read, but small enough that I can (usually) swipe forward while holding it in my left hand. (And I have small hands.) You can also set it to swipe in different areas.

There’s a slow but functional web browser which I actually used a fair bit, and a cute little sketch program that puts your finger sketches in your book library. This is an awkward but workable way to take a note if you have nothing else available. Adding a keyboard pop-up to the sketch program would make it awesome.

There are lots of options and ways to access them. This is also a con, because they get confusing and are not always intuitive.

All of the off screens — sleeping, powered off — have smiley faces on them. Okay, so my life is a little difficult at times.


Oh, the slowness and unresponsiveness! It’s not so bad while reading, but when making any kind of change, such as to the font size, it’s excruciating.  The customizing features lose their allure when you have to keep futzing with them to get what you want.

The ereader skips a page regularly. I think this may be connected with the “page redraw” function, since it seems to happen about every six pages.

In addition to being unresponsive to actual touches, it’s very responsive to ghost touches. Definitions of words like “to” and “book” keep showing up on the page. Thanks for that.

Although I haven’t used Kobo customer service in regards to the ereader itself, my experiences with it in regards to ebooks have been fairly dismal. (Though still better than the cesspool that is B&N.)

When I disconnect the reader from my computer, the screen that says it’s connected stays on, which is disconcerting. It also takes a while to adjust after sideloading books.

Although it basically works with ADE and Calibre, there tend to be Issues.

There’s a “wifi” box to check, but you still need to go to another screen and scan for networks, at least the first time. I kept thinking I had wifi because the box was checked. The indicator is confusing.

No indicator light to show it’s charging. Hard to see what the battery life is.

UPDATE 7/20/15: There actually is an indicator light, it’s just at the top where I couldn’t see it.

The plug outlet is upside down. Just when I finally had that one figured out.

I didn’t realize there was more than one color choice and bought the white one. It’s shiny and glares. I much prefer dark colored, matte ereaders.

I had a problem initially with the reader not going to sleep automatically and consequently draining the battery very quickly. I’m not sure why it happened and it hasn’t happened since.

The details we see on the page change from book to book — presumably a publisher setting. Some books show all pages in the book, some show how many pages left in the current chapter. I hate that.

The process to see your library of books seems longer than it needs to be. First you bring up a menu, then choose from several mostly pointless options.

There aren’t many case options available. I’m using a cute little fabric one my mom made for me, because nothing I could find didn’t add a lot of bulk, ruining the whole point of a small ereader.


On the whole, since I got this for $40 on sale AND used bookstore credit to buy it, I’m pretty happy with it. I’m not sure I’d buy another Kobo though and I certainly wouldn’t buy another Mini for full price.  If there’s another great sale, I just might buy the black one. 🙂

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Groupthink — the good kind

BookLikes, which is exceptionally responsive to user requests, now has discussion groups! They’re a little low-function so far, but I think that will improve in time — and they’re very easy to create and administer. Have it it!

I’ve created a Harlequin group, of course, and a book bargain group.

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Review: Reversal by Cara McKenna

What tickled my fancy: The progression in the relationship is becoming really exciting.
What ticked me off: Nothing, though I seem to prefer the stories written in Caroly’s voice over Didier’s.
Who might like this: Readers who enjoyed the previous stories. Start at the beginning.

Continuing the pattern of alternating between voices, the fourth book in the “Curio” series is narrated by Didier, the agoraphobic Parisian prostitute. But the pattern breaks with the title — all the previous books began with a C — and I think this is deliberate, since the theme of the book is, obviously, reversing the usual order of things.

As the book begins, Didier is dealing with the shameful aftermath of having a brave attempt go badly wrong; hoping to surprise his lover Caroly with a present from a shop he hasn’t been able to visit in years, he instead got lost and is now a nervous wreck. Didier has begun to want a more regularized relationship with Caroly, to even live with her — which would pretty much require changing jobs. But his failure makes the whole idea seem impossible.

When Caroly arrives, Didier attempts to soothe himself by devoting himself to her pleasure, as usual. But Caroly objects to being used for distraction, and proposes that she take charge, for a change.

I enjoyed this more than the first story narrated by Didier, which felt a little too flowery to me.  He’s very vulnerable here, which is touching, and the descriptions of his anxiety were illuminating. The suspense about their relationship is intense — although I was happy with the end of Curio as it stood, seeing them move closer to admitting they’re in love and perhaps to an exclusive relationship is making my romantic heart go pitter-pat.  I’m torn between wanting to dive into the last two stories and knowing I should stretch them out so as to properly enjoy them.

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